How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 03:48

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Let’s say you have 3 separate manuscripts and send 1 of them to 12 different agents (4 read same copy). Now let’s say 2 agents each liked separate manuscripts and want to move forward. What would you do as far as transparency and negotiation?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Ask yourself:

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

Why do untreated borderlines always blame their partners when they actually think they are normal?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.